Welcome to

Pillow Talk Confidential

A safe confidential judgment free zone for those suffering from chronic illness and for their caregivers, to discuss all day-to-day issues we face as a community.

30% Personal Story

My personal story from a young age through marriage, surgeries, developing chronic debilitating illnesses and surviving all of it, including divorce.

40% Living with Disabilities

The day-to-day challenges of living, including, working, keeping your job, managing your Human Resources department, FMLA and ADA paperwork.

30% Sensuality

Lets talk about relationships, love, intimacy, & open communication; as well as those taboo topics that you would never talk about with your parents. NSFW (Not Safe For Work)

Featured Entries

A difficult day, again

I know I missed posting on the 26th but since it's still the middle of the night here and in...

Did life just get in the way AGAIN???

I suppose I should write before I fall asleep but that may be never. I have been awake since...

When the Universe hands you a cookie

One of my dearest friends has a saying "When the Universe hands you a cookie, smile and take it"...

A day at the Beach

What a day! It was spiritually cleansing but I am still struggling with a few things. One big one...

Open But Cheats?

MY OP~ED to this blog ......

Why are we not understanding of our fellow Warriors

So, as we all know in todays political climate it is difficult to remain compassionate and kind....

When the Chronically ill take care of others

March 30, 2019 Here I am again, realizing that we are now ¼ of the way through 2019 and this has...

Not all Sex advice is created equal

Relationship Rules RELATIONSHIPS 9 Major Mistakes Men Make When Making Love To A Woman Women can...

When chronic illness makes it difficult to prove you can

In case you are new to this blog and my history, here is a quick synopis. I live with a...

Life is full of signs

This was written several week aI have tried to write this many timesbut after my 20th MRI, I was...
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