Pillow Talk Confidential Blog

Here at Pillow Talk Confidential we share our life experiences, the good, the bad and the ugly. We also provide an insight to life, work and intimacy post development of a chronic disease. And finally, we share writings, scenarios and all things condsidered taboo.

A difficult day, again

I know I missed posting on the 26th but since it's still the middle of the night here and in Hawaii, this counts for the 26th day. 😁 In all honesty I didn't write before bed last night because I was physically tired, mentally wired and realized my posts were becoming...

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Did life just get in the way AGAIN???

Did life just get in the way AGAIN???

I suppose I should write before I fall asleep but that may be never. I have been awake since 430am. The Man drove me to Phoenix, where I went to pick up an order at Target, then to St. Joe's for a Brain and Neck MRI which turns out everything is stable, which o fond...

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When the Universe hands you a cookie

When the Universe hands you a cookie

One of my dearest friends has a saying "When the Universe hands you a cookie, smile and take it" He has been saying this to me for over three years now. And I think I finally understand what he means. Over the past nine years I have had a plethora of people come and...

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A day at the Beach

A day at the Beach

What a day! It was spiritually cleansing but I am still struggling with a few things. One big one is WHY do we, as humans, tend to expect our new partners to never do anything our previous partner did. Specifically the negative, bad or otherwise annoying things a...

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Open But Cheats?

Open But Cheats?

MY OP~ED to this blog ... https://www.thestranger.com/slog/2019/05/02/40086481/the-good-d-cheated-should-she-offer-him-an-open-relationship-again?cb=f163c8d4aeaf9abd2fac5a33e1b074bb&fbclid=IwAR2w0yf4waSQpwp5YL9lpTW7zy6GEohTZWOHaTu5WmwBRUVZM8wF9jadzao The Good D...

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Why are we not understanding of our fellow Warriors

Why are we not understanding of our fellow Warriors

So, as we all know in todays political climate it is difficult to remain compassionate and kind. But we must. We, as human beings, must find the strength and desire to treat each other well. Now, don't get me wrong, some people just suck. They are mean and hateful,...

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When the Chronically ill take care of others

When the Chronically ill take care of others

March 30, 2019 Here I am again, realizing that we are now ¼ of the way through 2019 and this has been anything except the Year of Me. Some of you may remember I declared at the beginning of the new year that I would not make resolutions but that I would focus on me...

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Not all Sex advice is created equal

Not all Sex advice is created equal

Relationship Rules RELATIONSHIPS 9 Major Mistakes Men Make When Making Love To A Woman Women can come off as overwhelmingly complicated but it’s okay. This article will help you up game of pleasing a women in bed. You’re welcome, men. This is my response to a blog...

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When chronic illness makes it difficult to prove you can

When chronic illness makes it difficult to prove you can

In case you are new to this blog and my history, here is a quick synopis. I live with a "companion" that is 25 years my elder. He is an amazingly giving and caring man. Unfortunately, he has taken to caring for me in such a way, he has convinced himself I cannot live...

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Life is full of signs

Life is full of signs

This was written several week aI have tried to write this many timesbut after my 20th MRI, I was so sick I couldn't do anything. Now it's 3am and I can't sleep because of a stuffy nose, a sore tooth and as usual, too much on my mind. One of my gal pals posed the...

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